tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347675812024-02-03T03:57:55.983-08:00Eldon Taylor on Choices & IllusionsChoices and Illusions: Or How Did I Get Here and How Do I Get Where I Want to Be? This new book shows clearly how a person loses themselves and provides a clear path for how one can regain their true self and maximize their potential thereby realizing success, health and harmony in all things. Due for release in early 2007. Check on pre-order discounts and availability now by going to www.innertalk.com.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-41417431809301538202009-06-20T07:06:00.000-07:002009-06-20T07:11:36.849-07:00The Rehearsal that Makes a Lifetime DifferenceThe Rehearsal that Makes a Lifetime Difference<br /><br /> Within every human being exists a propensity for greatness. The gifts may vary, and the greatness may live out in a vast array of alternatives—say from carpentry to rocket science—but the gift that gives one true self-respect, lifts the spirit from “same old, same old,” resides within. It is our ability to do our very best with our talents in every thing we do. This potential resides within each one of us—but if so, then why is it so often denied?<br /><br /> Every individual essentially has a self-representation that is rehearsed and eventually actualized. The process begins by fantasizing at a very early age. We fantasize a script, perhaps one of those from some Hollywood production. We begin rehearsing it, and we either abandon it to take up a new one or practice it until we role-play that script as who we are. Practicing the script sooner or later automates the behavior. Our imprinting environment plays a significant role in the alternative scripts available to us. If the parents are uncaring and abusive, so are the children, and so forth. If warmth and friendliness lead to embarrassment, then cold and aloof compensate. If honesty gets us into trouble, then deception becomes a defense strategy, and so forth.<br /><br /> It is much more complicated than expressed here, but simply, it is also just this way. In fact, every one of us divides ourselves among four essential views of ourselves. These four faces include the following:<br /> Our actual self. <br /> Our ideal self. <br /> Our ought-to-be self.<br /> Our desired self. <br />These categories were originally developed by P. A. D. Singer to show how the different selves conflict with each other.1 I will use it differently.<br /><br /> Most of us are aware of a so-called actual self. This is the self that has failed in ways we often will not share with others. This is the private self. This self holds the thoughts we wish we did not have, the acts we wish we had not done, our beliefs about our worth, our attractiveness, and so forth. It is the self of our secrets and our ambitions. It is the self that most try to change in some way or another at some time in their life—perhaps even perpetually. <br /><br /> The actual self pales by comparison to our ideal self. The ideal self is often a construct built by our culture. This self would live a perfect life—without error and therefore without room for growth. <br /><br /> Then there is our “ought-to-be self.” This is the self full of all our learned “shoulds” and “oughts.” This self differs from our ideal self in the sense that many of the oughts are not ours—they are the oughts of our culture, our society—but deep down inside they are not ours. Sometimes these oughts are the result of rules that make little or no sense to us; sometimes the oughts are of codependent negotiations such as those implied when Mom said things like, “If you loved me, you would not behave that way,” or “If you loved me, you would do what I said,” and so forth. Still, even when one recognizes the source and the nature of the ought relationship from which the oughts themselves arise, they often persist. <br /><br /> Finally, there is the desired self. Somewhere among all of our other selves is a self that we believe we could be. This is the self we long for, especially when we are young and planning our future. It is also the source of much discontent in our later life if the desires have not been fulfilled—and they rarely, if ever, are. <br /><br /> The ought-to-be self, desired self, and ideal self share certain commonalities, but they also differ remarkably. There is psychic tension among them and in their totality, substantial tension between them and our so-called actual self. <br /><br /> Now, there’s one more thing I wish to add before continuing. The actual self is seldom the true actual self. The actual self is the self of self-perception and therefore is complete with every believed limitation that accompanies one’s private self-perception together with every defense adjustment our mechanisms have created to protect our self image or ego.<br /><br /> Okay, all of this is accomplished while we are still very young. In time we gain the wisdom and insight to become familiar with this maturation process and a myriad of other operations that function in our culture, our homes, etc. to produce socially acceptable membership and behavior. Using one of Shakespeare’s metaphors, life is a stage where we play our various parts, perhaps it’s time for a new rehearsal. Indeed, change, improvement, true self-actualization and so forth, all require that we create a new character. Using our power of imagination and consciously choosing the role playing model we will rehearse, will greatly assist and facilitate any change.<br /><br /> Therefore, it literally behooves all of us to watch those conversation exchanges that take place in our head as well as every other aspect of our “rehearsing” behavior. To experience our best we must practice/rehearse our best at all levels of our being. It works—but it can also be much easier said than done. Still, life’s cornucopia of joy awaits those willing to make the effort.<br /><br />Bibliography<br /><br />Singer, Peter Albert David. 2001. Writings on an Ethical Life. New York: Harper Perennial.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-28610836029890831772009-02-20T10:22:00.000-08:002009-02-20T10:24:58.222-08:00Choices and ConfusionSome of you have asked me what to do about wrong decisions and here is one answer:<br /><br />More on Confusion or so-called Choices<br /><br />It is easy to make a “wrong” decision—or at least to think that we have. Our struggles however very often become our strengths, as illustrated in my book, Choices and Illusions. I therefore prefer to think about making the decisions that I wish to direct my life in the way I wish for my life to be directed as opposed to worrying about decisions that are already a “done deal.” With this said, there are some things that can guide us if we are willing to change. Change requires becoming aware of the “whys” and “whats” behind our actions.<br /><br />Sometimes we make choices that are designed to either help us fit in or that are anti-authoritarian and perhaps even defiant. These are not true choices for they are in the category of either or? When our choices only oppose each other, they should always be suspect. Where the world is a duality, good and bad, yin and yang, and so forth, the notion that between the thesis and the antithesis exist a synthesis should be our goal. The so-called middle path or middle pillar is where we often find our best alternative.<br /><br />Choices we make have consequences and some can last a lifetime. Indris Shaw tells a Sufi story about the mouse and the elephant in his book, The Commanding Self, that makes this point clear. It seems that a young mouse fell dearly in love with an elephant. The elephant and the mouse soon sought permission to marry. Their respective parents, their entire families and friends warned against the marriage. The council and warnings fell on deaf ears as the mouse and the elephant decided to go ahead and marry anyway. On their wedding night the elephant suddenly died. The moral of the story—the mouse thought the decision was one thing when in fact it was the decision to spend the rest of its life digging a hole.<br /><br />Many decisions can seem in retrospect to have been “digging holes” that we somehow had to get out of. However, a moments serious thought and the realization that to change our life we must change our thinking and further, to dig out of that proverbial hole we must make wise choices. Wisdom is much more than knowledge. Knowledge is defined by Webster as, “the fact or condition of knowing something with familiarity gained through experience or association (2) : acquaintance with or understanding of a science, art, or technique b (1) : the fact or condition of being aware of something.” Wisdom requires understanding much more including what one does not know and possessing the faculty requisite to deciding between alternatives even if that means inventing a new alternative. It has been said by many that genius is simply a matter of seeing the same thing differently. <br /><br />May wisdom accompany your every choice and may you realize your true unlimited potential in all things.<br /><br />Eldon<br /><br />CHOICES AND ILLUSIONS: HOW DID I GET WHERE I AM AND HOW DO I GET WHERE I WANT TO BE officially became a best seller in its second week following release. If you haven’t yet picked up your copy and/or you want a second copy for a friend, visit this URL for more information: http://www.choicesandillusions.com/specialoffer.htmlEldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-48359748237852152722009-01-10T12:22:00.001-08:002009-01-10T12:22:47.960-08:00Thanks for the feedback!This book came so highly recommended from so many individuals whom I respect that I couldn't imagine not reading it. I found the book fascinating. I've been a student of spirituality and science my whole life. I loved how the author made the concepts simple and yet very strongly tied them in with the spiritual viewpoint of life which isn't always as easy to grasp. The essence of the Universe and Universal law is the Law of Attraction and the way it is activated is through our thoughts. Mr. Taylor very clearly explains the process and why it works. And Mr. Taylor has found a way, through his many years of research and experience, to expedite that process. I personally know the power and 'magic' of affirmations. But I also know that it's not easy to keep your mind and attention on the affirmations we've chosen and the path we know we would like to direct ourselves to. Mr. Taylor has a line of tapes that compliment and support the concepts in his book. I believe, approached with an open mind, and a willing heart......that there isn't anything you can't accomplish. I plan to purchase several of the tapes and additional copies of the book for myself and for loved ones. R.R.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-37105449472660436882009-01-06T14:09:00.000-08:002009-01-06T14:10:58.455-08:00Some Choices that Are Really IllusionsSome Choices that Are Really Illusions<br /><br />In my book Choices and Illusions, the idea that many so-called choices made by most are indeed between alternatives that have been scripted during our maturation. As such, we choose to do A instead of B or C but never consider that there is an entire alphabet of possibilities. We are blinded by our labels, definitions, thinking patterns and so forth. It is like we live in “thought boxes” that delimit our alternatives. Ellen Langer defines much of this “blindness” as context bound. In one of her examples, a friend comes to our door and explains that they are participating in a scavenger hunt and if we can give them a 4-foot by 7-foot slab of wood that they can win $10,000. They also offer to split the money with us. We think, "I don't have a woodpile," so we say, "sorry" and close our 4 by 7 wood door.<br /><br />Our business is in large about our InnerTalk technology. The basis of this technology rests in changing our thoughts in ways that get us out of those “thought boxes.” This is done with positive scripts designed by mutually exclusive logic to eliminate the old negative programming. By design, it is more than affirmations but using the conscious mind to reprogram can be very helpful as well. Sometimes it seems futile and that is simply because our subconscious can and does often argue with those positive affirmations we choose to use. For example, many people have experienced using some prosperity affirmation like, “I am going to earn a million dollars,” only to have some self talk speak back something like, “Sure, what are you going to do—rob a bank?”<br /><br />Arguable much of the benefit one gains from InnerTalk comes because it speaks directly to the subconscious, priming your self-talk. Still there are a host of ole negative scripts that you can watch and work on with or without an InnerTalk program. They’re scripts that trap you. Here are some simple examples:<br /><br />Look out for number one.<br />Get evener not even.<br />My ______ is better than yours. (government, language, religion, etc.)<br />I have the only right way—or the only right truth.<br />Money is the root of all evil.<br />Charity begins at home.<br />Waste not—want not. (Clean up your plate).<br />The scraps go to the losers.<br />Life is not fair. (Life sucks and then you die).<br />The tiger is the last in the jungle to starve.<br />If it’s not broke don’t fix it.<br />You’re lucky---look at the less fortunate.<br /><br />While sometimes enticing, the problem with all of these scripts is that they subtract from someone. In Choices, I refer to this as the subtraction game. Subtracting from someone is at the very least, the basis for subtracting from self. It is a dangerous and eventually self-sabotaging precedent. <br /><br />For years I have taught that the “life sucks and then you die” stuff was insane, at least for those that wish to live long, happy and prosperous lives. I like something Louis Hay said the other day on Oprah, “I love life and life loves me!” If you really would like to see some magic in your life from just a few words, try starting your day with a “Thank you” and meeting each moment with the attitude, “I love life and life loves me!”Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-21393026315645533872008-12-31T19:30:00.000-08:002009-01-08T13:51:33.716-08:00Chicken and EagleEldon,<br /><br />I just watched one of your short videos (from your book, Choices and Illusions) on YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/user/progressiveawareness). How inspiring! I feel like I want to go out and start helping people. I've been walking around for so long like a "chicken", and want to soar like an Eagle.<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />T.G.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-64951491806707766652008-08-16T14:06:00.001-07:002008-08-16T14:07:44.880-07:00Love your letters--thank you!Hello All,<br /><br />I really do love reading your letters and comments on my newest book, Choices and Illusions. It is hard to choose which ones stand out the most so I simply will not. Still, I have been asked why I don’t post more often to my book blog and/or at least post comments from readers. To that end, here are two of my favorites from this past week or so. Hope you enjoy!<br /><br />Eldon<br /><br />Dear Sir,<br /><br />At the age of 58 years young I have just got the message, I met my second wife eight years ago and she is very spiritual, with concepts to life that I could simply not get. "What you think you create"<br /><br />I come from a working class background with all the good things in life, like great love and admiration from parents, not a very good basic education, but enough to help me get by in my work and further develop. I grew up like thousands of others thinking the only way in life was to work hard, ethically and give a good day work (and more) for your pay. This mind sent kept me in continual work.<br /><br />However, I came to a turning point in life where I had put everything into my family over a period of 22 years, providing a very nice house, private education for my twins from the early age through to University. This gave me great pleasure because I grew up believing I was never smart enough to go to University. Then my wife divorced me because the only way I knew to earn money enough to maintain the family’s life style was to take on overseas assignments in remote areas of the world under difficult conditions with no quality of life.<br /><br />My new wife when we met started to tell me all the things of the universe and basically to an Engineer it sounded like she was off with the fairies.<br /><br />Then She bought your book Choices and Illusions, so I read it with an open mind, and I have decided that I need to read it again to further understand the Mind issues that did not really understand,<br />"What you think is what you create" Wow this was too big for me to understand,<br />a) Because I wanted to understand, and I wanted it to work for me, but I had the obvious doubts,<br />b) What if my thoughts are for the wrong thing like self-gain just money like winning the lotto when it’s not my turn?<br />c) I also had the mixed negative thoughts that maybe it would not work; the tennis game went on in my mind and did not stop.<br /><br />Now I have it, I have wealth, I have love, I'm moving into a million dollar home, and the most beautiful thing about what I'm doing I'm helping others to do the same. I'm even helping people that tried to tell me how the Universe worked several years ago because they did not really put full belief into it.<br /><br />People need to read your book, write down questions, doubts and be perfectly honest with them selves and if there is anything they don't understand ask, and then start the process of working the mind in a positive way.<br /><br />My system works because I'm genuinely grateful for everything in life when I wake up in a morning and the events of the day.<br /><br />John H, thank you<br /><br /><br />Hi Eldon!<br /> <br />I am amazed by all of the wonderful information that you offer on your site. There is something for everyone! Your book "Choices & Illusions...How did I get where I am and how do I get to where I want to be" is exceptional and inspiring. I have had times in my life where I sat back and thought...how did I ever get here? I realized it was my best thinking that got me there and my thinking needed to change.<br /> <br />I am a recovering alcoholic and addict (been sober 20 years now) and essential parts of recovery are learning to change our negative thought patterns into positive thinking, finding a Higher Power, mediation and finding a new way of living.<br /> <br />All of your information designed to help is perfect for those in recovery. Many people in recovery are constantly seeking self-improvement information. <br />Amy “AJ” Crowell, MBA<br />Author: Loved Back to LifeEldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-12093403163684265142008-08-16T14:06:00.000-07:002009-01-10T12:04:44.397-08:00Love your letters--thank you!Hello All,<br /><br />I really do love reading your letters and comments on my newest book, Choices and Illusions. It is hard to choose which ones stand out the most so I simply will not. Still, I have been asked why I don’t post more often to my book blog and/or at least post comments from readers. To that end, here are two of my favorites from this past week or so. Hope you enjoy!<br /><br />Eldon<br /><br />Dear Sir,<br /><br />At the age of 58 years young I have just got the message, I met my second wife eight years ago and she is very spiritual, with concepts to life that I could simply not get. "What you think you create"<br /><br />I come from a working class background with all the good things in life, like great love and admiration from parents, not a very good basic education, but enough to help me get by in my work and further develop. I grew up like thousands of others thinking the only way in life was to work hard, ethically and give a good day work (and more) for your pay. This mind sent kept me in continual work.<br /><br />However, I came to a turning point in life where I had put everything into my family over a period of 22 years, providing a very nice house, private education for my twins from the early age through to University. This gave me great pleasure because I grew up believing I was never smart enough to go to University. Then my wife divorced me because the only way I knew to earn money enough to maintain the family’s life style was to take on overseas assignments in remote areas of the world under difficult conditions with no quality of life.<br /><br />My new wife when we met started to tell me all the things of the universe and basically to an Engineer it sounded like she was off with the fairies.<br /><br />Then She bought your book Choices and Illusions, so I read it with an open mind, and I have decided that I need to read it again to further understand the Mind issues that did not really understand,<br />"What you think is what you create" Wow this was too big for me to understand,<br />a) Because I wanted to understand, and I wanted it to work for me, but I had the obvious doubts,<br />b) What if my thoughts are for the wrong thing like self-gain just money like winning the lotto when it’s not my turn?<br />c) I also had the mixed negative thoughts that maybe it would not work; the tennis game went on in my mind and did not stop.<br /><br />Now I have it, I have wealth, I have love, I'm moving into a million dollar home, and the most beautiful thing about what I'm doing I'm helping others to do the same. I'm even helping people that tried to tell me how the Universe worked several years ago because they did not really put full belief into it.<br /><br />People need to read your book, write down questions, doubts and be perfectly honest with them selves and if there is anything they don't understand ask, and then start the process of working the mind in a positive way.<br /><br />My system works because I'm genuinely grateful for everything in life when I wake up in a morning and the events of the day.<br /><br />John H, thank you<br /><br /><br />Hi Eldon!<br /> <br />I am amazed by all of the wonderful information that you offer on your site. There is something for everyone! Your book "Choices & Illusions...How did I get where I am and how do I get to where I want to be" is exceptional and inspiring. I have had times in my life where I sat back and thought...how did I ever get here? I realized it was my best thinking that got me there and my thinking needed to change.<br /> <br />I am a recovering alcoholic and addict (been sober 20 years now) and essential parts of recovery are learning to change our negative thought patterns into positive thinking, finding a Higher Power, mediation and finding a new way of living.<br /> <br />All of your information designed to help is perfect for those in recovery. Many people in recovery are constantly seeking self-improvement information. <br />Amy “AJ” Crowell, MBA<br />Author: Loved Back to Life<br /><br /><br />Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-7089026874791583952008-08-16T14:04:00.000-07:002009-01-10T12:04:44.398-08:00Love your letters--thank you!Hello All,<br /><br />I really do love reading your letters and comments on my newest book, Choices and Illusions. It is hard to choose which ones stand out the most so I simply will not. Still, I have been asked why I don’t post more often to my book blog and/or at least post comments from readers. To that end, here are two of my favorites from this past week or so. Hope you enjoy!<br /><br />Eldon<br /><br /><br />Dear Sir,<br /><br />At the age of 58 years young I have just got the message, I met my second wife eight years ago and she is very spiritual, with concepts to life that I could simply not get. "What you think you create"<br /><br />I come from a working class background with all the good things in life, like great love and admiration from parents, not a very good basic education, but enough to help me get by in my work and further develop. I grew up like thousands of others thinking the only way in life was to work hard, ethically and give a good day work (and more) for your pay. This mind sent kept me in continual work.<br /><br />However, I came to a turning point in life where I had put everything into my family over a period of 22 years, providing a very nice house, private education for my twins from the early age through to University. This gave me great pleasure because I grew up believing I was never smart enough to go to University. Then my wife divorced me because the only way I knew to earn money enough to maintain the family’s life style was to take on overseas assignments in remote areas of the world under difficult conditions with no quality of life.<br /><br />My new wife when we met started to tell me all the things of the universe and basically to an Engineer it sounded like she was off with the fairies.<br /><br />Then She bought your book Choices and Illusions, so I read it with an open mind, and I have decided that I need to read it again to further understand the Mind issues that did not really understand,<br />"What you think is what you create" Wow this was too big for me to understand,<br />a) Because I wanted to understand, and I wanted it to work for me, but I had the obvious doubts,<br />b) What if my thoughts are for the wrong thing like self-gain just money like winning the lotto when it’s not my turn?<br />c) I also had the mixed negative thoughts that maybe it would not work; the tennis game went on in my mind and did not stop.<br /><br />Now I have it, I have wealth, I have love, I'm moving into a million dollar home, and the most beautiful thing about what I'm doing I'm helping others to do the same. I'm even helping people that tried to tell me how the Universe worked several years ago because they did not really put full belief into it.<br /><br />People need to read your book, write down questions, doubts and be perfectly honest with them selves and if there is anything they don't understand ask, and then start the process of working the mind in a positive way.<br /><br />My system works because I'm genuinely grateful for everything in life when I wake up in a morning and the events of the day.<br /><br />John Hopson, thank you<br />Hi Eldon!<br /> <br />I am amazed by all of the wonderful information that you offer on your site. There is something for everyone! Your book "Choices & Illusions...How did I get where I am and how do I get to where I want to be" is exceptional and inspiring. I have had times in my life where I sat back and thought...how did I ever get here? I realized it was my best thinking that got me there and my thinking needed to change.<br /> <br />I am a recovering alcoholic and addict (been sober 20 years now) and essential parts of recovery are learning to change our negative thought patterns into positive thinking, finding a Higher Power, mediation and finding a new way of living.<br /> <br />All of your information designed to help is perfect for those in recovery. Many people in recovery are constantly seeking self-improvement information. <br />Amy “AJ” Crowell, MBA<br />Author: Loved Back to Life<br /><br /><br />Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-10966043157484440842008-06-20T10:57:00.000-07:002008-06-20T11:01:47.437-07:00The Happiness Club and ChoicesIt thrills me to hear from readers that they enjoyed Choices and Illusions. It is a real double pleasure when someone you admire and respect as already having it all finds your work helpful. Such is the case with Lionel Ketchian, founder of the Happiness Club. His work spans over two decades and has aided countless individuals in finding happiness. This is what Lionel recently wrote about Choices and Illusions.<br /><br />I have read the book, loved it and recommend it. I have also written some articles about it that were published in the newspapers. Here’s a quote:<br /><br />I recommend reading Eldon Taylor's book, Choices and Illusions. Reading Eldon's book has given me a new dimension to my life. I have been practicing forgiveness for over twenty years. This book has shown me a new pathway to freedom and happiness. That pathway is to let go of blaming others, no matter what. <br /> <br />In expanding my new practice, I have not only found liberation by letting go of blaming others, but I have also realized that I don't have to blame myself in the process. <br /> <br />I want to state a powerful and accurate quote from Choices and Illusions: "When you forgive, you essentially undo the ability to blame. If there is nothing to blame, then you are in charge of your response to outside stimuli. There is less room for anger without blame. There is less to fear when your 're empowered." The concept of giving up blame leads to a feeling of unconditional love for others. This is an important way to feel more like you are a contributing member of the human race. You begin to feel like you fit into the human family. You feel that you are important to the world, and the world returns the favor, by allowing you to experience being connected to others. You have joined the human family. You belong to it and it belongs to you. <br /> <br />Eldon shows you that you do not arrive at this state by your thinking but rather by becoming aware of your beliefs. Only by experiencing this powerful state can we break through our illusions and empower ourselves and thereby the world. <br /> <br />Happiness is a decision. Happiness is intentional and once you have decided that being happy is the way you want to choose to live, you can, once you understand your illusions. Eventually, with the practice of creating the proper thinking, you will use choiceless awareness to make happiness a living part of you. <br /> <br />Sharing Love, Peace and Happiness with you,<br />Lionel Ketchian<br />Founder of the Happiness Club<br />www.happinessclub.com<br /><br />Thanks Lionel and thanks to all of you for the read.<br /><br />P.S.<br />If you have not obtained your copy of Choices and Illusions, here is a link that contains some truly wonderful incentives when you get your copy:<br />http://progressiveawarenesspromotions.com/hayhousepromo/022608/Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-26265002170444989252008-03-14T18:15:00.000-07:002008-03-14T18:27:00.537-07:00Elusive QuestionsThe Answer to Life's <br />Most Elusive Question<br /><br />Hello once again,<br /><br />A few months ago, I had the great pleasure of introducing you to my latest book, Choices and Illusions. Since then, Choices and Illusions has gone on to become an International and New York Times best seller. <br /><br />In your quest to have a more fulfilling life you have undoubtedly read a lot of books, listened to audio tapes, attended seminars and used a variety of other methods in your attempt to get what you want from life. If you're like most however, you're still searching.<br /><br />It is not that the programs you've participated in weren't good, even great, but there was still a missing link that you knew could somehow tie it all together and finally get your world to click into place. It is much like having all the right numbers to a combination but it isn't until you have them ordered correctly that the lock springs open.<br /><br />Choices and Illusions provides the key, the ordered set of numbers, that will unlock a powerful future for you and for a limited time there is a special offer that provides many bonus gifts from leading visionaries that support the book.<br /><br />For more details about an<br />amazing special offer, go to:<br />http://www.innertalk.com/hayhousepromos/etaylor/091807email/index.html<br /><br /><br />I really think Choices and Illusions is for everyone. Read what one trainer said about it:<br />"A few pages in and I was digging around in my nightstand for a highlighter and pen – tools I consider mandatory for any good read – propping the pillows more comfortably behind me, and settling in for what I knew would be both a long night read and a delightful learning experience. I finished the book at three o-clock this morning. I was not disappointed in the least. I know that in the very first read alone, I experienced many, many 'AHA!' moments, and was able to see, for the first time, many of the silly little ways I still pay homage to many self-imposed limits. Now, thanks to Eldon's work, I can confront those blessing-barriers and put an end to them once and for all."<br /><br />It is not until you crack the code that opens the lock that a world of limitless possibility appears. The Great Masters of our time can tell you over and over about your unlimited potential but as long as you are confined within a particular set of beliefs, you won't have the perspective to really see, find, or do it yourself.<br /><br />Choices and Illusions helps you to see through the illusions that have kept you bound in an endless cycle, repeating the same patterns over and over again. Once you hold this key in your hand, all the knowledge you have accumulated up until now will make sense to you in a way it never has before.<br /><br />Thank you for your time, feedback and support.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-31889069734687967752007-12-12T13:19:00.000-08:002007-12-12T13:20:46.056-08:00New York Times Best SellerThank you, all of you, for helping make Choices and Illusions a New York Times Best Seller.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-1158966427631305662007-05-16T12:15:00.000-07:002007-05-16T12:10:28.536-07:00Hello and welcome, I'm Eldon Taylor and I sincerely hope you enjoy and benefit from my new book, "Choices and Illusions."<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/4614/3692/1600/661110/This%20one-casual5x7.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/4614/3692/320/495479/This%20one-casual5x7.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/4614/3692/1600/ET%20press%20photo.png"><br /></a>Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-1158882239494565212007-05-03T12:42:00.000-07:002008-01-07T11:07:42.536-08:00ReviewsRead this Book! We are living at a time where people are searching for answers to fundamental questions in their lives and this book can be, if applied, a roadmap to personal enlightenment and empowerment. I believe it can 'tune in' the frequency your currently operating on... or more importantly, help you to see that you can manifest a change.<br />John Edward, Crossing Over and After Life<br /><br />This is an extraordinary and complete overview of mind and consciousness, from someone who has been demonstrating it in his life for many years. - Lynne McTaggart, author of The Field and The Intention Experiment.<br /><br />This book has changed my life. Before I began reading it, my life was going nowhere. At 36 I still felt as if I didn't know what I wanted out of life. Eldon Taylor has taught me to look inside myself, to find what I want, and to go after it. Frankly, I believe this is the best book I've ever read and from now on I'll carry it everywhere I go, for inspiration, for guidance, and so that I never forget to go after my dreams... to never give up. Whether you're just needing a little assistance to hone one's performance attitude or in need of a complete remake, If you are looking for ONE book to change your life. This is it. I highly suggest this book if you want to change your life and get what you really want."<br />Aiman A. Al-Maimani<br /><br />"A rare book full of deep wisdom and heart expanding energy. I loved it."<br />-- Dr. Joe Vitale, author of "Zero Limits" and "The Attractor Factor"<br /><br />‘Choices and Illusions’ opens our minds to explore inwardly, explore how our minds work, and how to harness our minds to become clear about our purpose in life and the Love that we are.<br />Gerald G. Jampolsky, M.D.<br />Author of Teach Only Love, Say Goodbye to Guilt and others as well as Co-Author with Diane V. Cirincione, Ph.D. of “Finding Our Way Home” to be released by Hay House in 2008.<br /><br />Choices and Illusions<br /><br />Dr. Taylor’s book is dynamite!!! At last we come to yet another chapter in realizing that the subconscious mind is more powerful, affective and all pervasive in controlling the outcomes in our lives.<br /><br />Eldon Taylor is an inspiration and a guiding light to me in my life………and I have only met him once on the other side of the earth at a convention in Malaysia. Yet his impact, both of self and his books has been profound in the way I live my life today!<br /><br />I communicate to my audiences everywhere I go that if they need an author of substance to read and a book that would help re-model their lives, read this one!! Dr. Eldon Taylor is a genius!!!<br /><br />Dr. Mel Gill, author of Uncommon Sense<br /><br />With rich stories, amazing personal experience, and solid scientific evidence, Eldon Taylor provides a unique view into the workings of the inner mind, and opens the door for profound personal transformation.<br />Laurie Finkelstein, President, Positive Central<br /><br />I laid myself back on the couch after finishing the book and I closed my eyes.<br /><br />At first I did not know why I had such a strong desire to read it again and to keep it on the nightstand close to me. Then I understood.<br /><br />What every cell of my body was now experiencing, was a new, powerful energy, revitalizing, rejuvenating and inviting me to start taking action immediately. It was the energy that only hope can bring.<br /><br />Yes, what this book is bringing to the reader is hope. It represents the life saving ring thrown from an unexpected boat, in the middle of the ocean to an exhausted swimmer who lost his hope to reach the shore. It is the road back to the civilized world that an explorer, lost in an unfriendly jungle, suddenly discovers. It is the island with a landing field that a pilot of a plane almost out of fuel is suddenly seeing through the clouds above a rough ocean.<br /><br />This book is not only offering the reader a powerful insight into how the subconscious mind is dictating human behavior but also offers the solution to regaining control of our existence on this planet.<br /><br />And this is where the book stands out. We are finally able to acquire an understanding of not only why different things happen to us in our lifetime but also how to start changing our destiny, no matter how far away we are from this knowing.<br /><br />It is a book for all, the initiate, as well as the ones still under the power of the illusions of this life.<br /><br />It is a book designed to awaken the human consciousness.<br /><br />What a wonderful relief to know that is never too late to start changing and also that we are always in full control of this process!<br /><br />In my career, as a neurologist, nothing produced a more dramatic effect on my patients’ state of mind and their ability to recover from any condition than the sudden realization that they are themselves capable of influencing their own health, that they themselves are in the driver’s seat and not the doctor.<br /><br />After reading this book, the spiritualists will definitely claim Dr Eldon Taylor as one of their own.<br /><br />In the same time, the numerous scientific studies, proving the validity of his approach in mind training with Innertalk, done by reputable researchers, will place Dr Taylor among scientists.<br /><br />So, the only possible conclusion is that Dr Taylor is both a scientist and a spiritualist.<br /><br />By bridging these fields, he becomes a pioneer in what I believe could be considered the science of spirituality.<br /><br />Last but definitely not least Dr Taylor is a humanitarian. Those who got acquainted to his work over the years could easily realize that his work is inspired by love, an unconditional love for a human race at crossroads and in desperate need to redefine itself in order to survive. His entire work and life are dedicated to this purpose. I am firmly convinced that as long as people like Dr Taylor exist, there is still hope for our planet to be saved and for our civilization to continue its progress towards enlightment.<br /><br />Cristian Enescu, M.D.<br /><br />Choices and Illusions is a valuable addition that many individuals will find accessible and helpful.<br /><br />Steven Halpern Composer/recording artist and pioneering sound healer<br /><br />“Taylor has reached the mind-magic fulcrum by creating a matrix for shifting perceptual reality. A bold work! The extent that consciousness pervaded the landscape of inquiry above life itself is indeed the frontier of evolutionary science.” Elaine Smitha Motivational speaker, author of If You Make The Rules, How Come You’re Not Boss and host/producer of Evolving Ideas radio and TV.<br /><br />“In Choices and Illusions, Eldon Taylor takes us on a delightful and provocative odyssey through the corridors of consciousness. Using solid science, practical spirituality and common sense, he shows that our perceptions can be changed - and, once different, can catalyze dramatic improvements in our health and wellbeing.” Dawson Church, Ph. D. Author, The Genie In Your Genes.<br /><br />“I thoroughly enjoyed Eldon Taylor’s work of wisdom. It will lead the reader to a glimpse of the ‘Open Mind’ that merges science and spirituality.” Vijayendra Pratap, Ph. D., D.Y. P. Founder/Director of the Yoga Research Society and the SKY Foundation, Director of the Yoga Program, Jefferson-Myrna Brind Center for Integrative Medicine, and the author of Beginning Yoga<br /><br />"Transformationally insightful and thought-provoking, Dr. Eldon Taylor's "Choices and Illusions" examines the most basic assumptions we hold and take for granted. Dr. Taylor clearly elucidates how our thought patterns and beliefs impact our realities, shape our futures, and contribute to our self-esteem, happiness, success, and fulfillment - or to the lack of these desirable qualities. His fresh perspectives regarding the many assaults we receive from the outside world daily and how the invisible paradigms we are subject to limit our joy, personal power, and ability to step into our potential open up an entirely new world of possibilities for our growth and development. Dr. Taylor is one of the foremost philosophers of our time and his book is a great contribution to empowering our lives and sourcing our magnificence. I strongly recommend it. " Dr. Joe Rubino CEO, The Center for Personal Reinvention, and author of 11 Books on Personal Development and Business Topics available worldwide in 19 languages including "The Self-Esteem Book"<br /><br />I have known and admired Eldon Taylor for over 20 years. When we were struggling to build America’s first National Judo Institute in Colorado, Eldon called to discuss the psychological progress of our athletes. He volunteered to visit us at his own expense to create a subliminal audiotape for our Judo champions. We worked out the affirmations with Eldon’s help, and used the tape a great deal. That audiotape was, I believe, an important factor in our winning first place in America as a team for several years, securing several spots on the 1992 US Olympic Judo Team, and Kate Donahoo’s fifth place finish in those Olympics.<br /><br />Now I am very excited about Dr. Taylor’s new book, Choices and Illusions. To me, it not only gives the scientific background we need to understand how subliminal learning takes place, but also ties our minds in with the only logical explanation of Reality I know. It simply proves to me again, in a scientific and wonderful way, how our minds are part of the one Reality, and how we are inhibited from realizing that Reality by our conditioning, attitudes, and beliefs.<br /><br />Then the book goes on to let us know how we can return home to our true nature, locked into that Reality again. Through learning to live with awe, empathy, and right, unselfish actions, we will bring the world and ourselves home to Reality. That is triumph!<br /><br />I don’t believe there is a more important book on human happiness than Choices and Illusions.<br /><br />Philip S. Porter Founder, United States Martial Arts Association 10th Degree Black Belt, Judo, Jujitsu, Taiho Jitsu, Jun Kin Shin, Budo Taijutsu, Beikoku Mizu Ryu JuJitsu 9th Degree Black Belt, Wushu, 8th Degree Black Belt, Karate Major, United States Air Force (Retired), U.S. Military Academy, West Point, Class of 1948<br /><br />I think few today would deny the connection between the body and mind; particularly, with respect to one's mental and physical well-being. Dr. Taylor has gone into intricate detail to show some of the deeply hidden ways we "create" our successes and disappointments in life. But most of all, he shares how we might all consciously design the life we truly desire and proceed to achieve it. En route, he points out we are likely to experience "tests"-- and in fact, a never-ending series of tests that are the source of our continuing learning and growth. And somewhere along this journey -- independent of age -- he suggests we quite naturally discover a deeper dimension of ourselves, the spiritual. Finally, Dr. Taylor points out discovering that wholeness -- body, mind, and spirit -- within ourselves is the true source of happiness. Along this journey of continually discovering happiness, Dr. Taylor discusses the detailed working of the mind and suggests ways we can transform our deeply ingrained fears into empowering, motivating beliefs about ourselves. The result is a book that will not only change your perspective of life, but also result in a deeper understanding, empathy, and compassion for others. I highly recommend "Choices and Illusions" a "Must Read! "<br /><br />William Guillory, Ph. D. Founder of Innovations Consulting and author of several books including Spirituality in the Workplace<br /><br />"With a combination of insight and vast scientific data, Dr; Taylor delves into the workings of the mind and its enormous capacity for change through our divine power of choice. Terri Marie Award winning author of "Be the Hero of Your Own Game. " www.herobookonline.com<br /><br />Why do we have such a difficult time making and sticking with changes we wish to incorporate in our lives? A challenging question, indeed, and addressed by many self-help gurus and spiritual groups. Though well intentioned, few actually succeed in “helping” others to help themselves. They inspire for a brief moment, but the changes rarely kick in and stay put!<br /><br />Choices and Illusions explains not only why this phenomenon happens repeatedly, but actually provides a pathway around the subconscious saboteur that impedes one's progress. Dr. Eldon Taylor, a well-respected expert in the field of subliminal communication, leads the reader into a place of simplified understanding of the discipline that brings an end to the war between the heart and the head; between spirit and science. In a time when we are desperately seeking a balance between the dualities in our lives, Choices and Illusions provides a true recipe for success, sans the confusion that often accompanies the arrogance of intellectualism. There isn't a person alive who wouldn't benefit from this read! Angelina Heart author of The Teaching of Little Crow, the journey of the soul, Heart Flame Publishing, www.heartflamepublishing.com<br /><br />I found his book incredible insightful. Eldon has done an excellent job in demonstrating and explaining the power of the subconscious mind. Using the images and photos to make the point that not everything is as it first appears, was done very well. So many people have such strong limiting beliefs and I believe that this book will show them the true potential that lies within all of us. As you know I’ve been a true believer in affirmations and self-programming for years. And after reading the testimonials in this book, it has just strengthened my belief. Successfully, Jason Boreyko Author of Making the Impossible Possible.<br /><br />I just finished Eldon Taylor’s new book, Choices and Illusions, which makes<br />a strong case for subliminal learning documented by numerous case studies.<br />I was so taken by this offering and the possibilities it offers concerning<br />reprogramming our minds and bodies by listening to InnerTalk subliminal<br />recordings that I immediately ordered and read one of his earlier books,<br />Subliminal Learning, and several InnerTalk CDs. The second book gave me more<br />information about the technology and the CDs I am listening to regularly.<br /><br />Either I am highly suggestible or these things actually work. Since<br />listening to Neat and Tidy, which I am not, I find myself cleaning and<br />picking up. When I listen to Powerful Memory, old memories from long past<br />crop up as if my mind was defragging itself like a computer and I have a<br />compulsion to do a better job or remembering names, something that was not<br />my forte. I haven’t had them for very long. I am going to keep playing<br />them.<br />Winston Cook<br />Author of Incidents Beyond Coincidence<br /><br />Choices And Illusions Book Review<br /><br />Choices and Illusions is much more than just a cure for the common life. It is a veritable roadmap to understanding why most people are fundamentally unhappy. It explains clearly why most of the very choices we make are in fact not our own choices and how this prevents us from reaching our goals. Eldon Taylor does an excellent job in showing you how to get your inner and outer goals in line. When you are no longer fighting with your inner self, your life changes.<br /><br />In this extraordinary book, Eldon Taylor shares his amazing spiritual awakening while putting a scientific light on the nature of the development of our most guarded innermost secret self and how, when and why it conflicts with our desired self and our personal ambitions.<br /><br />Ever wonder why you do what you have repeatedly said you would not do? Ever wonder why the very things you disliked most, that your parents did, you do? Ever wonder how and why you got to where you are and how you can get to where you want to be? Ever wonder why some people seem to have it all and for others, life just gets harder and harder each day? Ever wonder what it would be like to feel self-actualized, happy, content and blessed? Choices and Illusions has both the answers to these questions and the life-changing transformative methods to find and live a life of peace, balance, harmony and happiness now; regardless of where you are or what you might have done.<br /><br />Captivating, refreshing, invigorating, inspirational, these are but a few terms that apply to Choices and Illusions. The author, Eldon Taylor, has taught the fundamentals of happiness for over twenty years to millions around the world, but never has his message been so readable and so succinct. Rarely is there a book that everyone can read and gain from. This book promises to be a true perennial because it is just that kind of book. Feel comfortable—no, feel great about recommending this book to anyone that feels life has to have more meaning and purpose than they presently grasp. In fact, feel terrific about recommending this book to everyone.<br /><br />A bundle of wisdom awaits you in this wonderful book!<br /><br />Post Update 1/07/08<br />I am very grateful for all of the support given to my newest book, Choices and Illusions, by so many well-known leaders in the personal growth field. People like Louise Hay, Deepak Chopra, Wayne Dyer, JZ Knight (Ramtha), Lynne McTaggart, Joan Borysenko, Michael Beckwith, Barbara De Angelis, John Assaraf, Sonia Choquette, Bruce Lipton, Sandra Anne Taylor, Caroline Myss, Peggy McColl, and so many others.<br /><br />As humbling as their support is, your support is most meaningful for without you the book would never have been the success it is and continues to be. Your letters and comments have both thrilled me and brought tears to my eyes. Your stories regarding the impact the book has made on your life is most meaningful to me—thank you!<br /><br />With that said, I must admit to shaking my head from time to time when I see some of the book reviews posted here at Amazon. I know the book upsets some people and I have known for some time that there are those involved in subliminal information processing who do not want you to read the book. Well before the publication of Choices I received requests to rewrite some of the book. These requests ranged from ‘soften my interpretation of the science’ to ‘eliminate some of my criticism of certain methods employed in the use of this technology.’ I chose to make no changes. Indeed, in order to share honestly what I learned over 25 years of work, I included my own research. I don’t know how else I could have demonstrated the findings short of just making some unfounded claim. I also shared real life stories from individuals and health care professionals that tried my work and found life changing results. Apparently to some, this constitutes an infomercial. I don’t believe that is the case, but I admit to patenting technologies I designed and researched. Most importantly to me, I shared my work with other researchers so I can share with you not just my findings on my own work but the findings of many independent researchers at leading institutions around the world.<br /><br />If you have not read Choices, I urge you to do so. Get it at the local library if you prefer. The fact is, this book can empower your life just from using what you will learn in the book. You need buy nothing else. The book alone shares the important methods necessary for everyone to enjoy their very best in everything they do and to justly receive the rewards. You do deserve the absolute cornucopia of joy life holds for all of us.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-1158948118377821722006-09-22T11:01:00.000-07:002007-01-18T16:27:02.646-08:00Choices and Illusions<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/4614/3692/1600/775956/choices%20cover%2072.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/4614/3692/320/555724/choices%20cover%2072.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Thank you for looking in. I hope you find the following information about my new book enough of a tease to get the book for yourself. I appreciate your feedback, so please leave your comments.<br /><br />Let me know what you think of the cover as well. I love it. Truly "out of the box thinking." The cover design is by Amy Rose Grigoriou of Hay House. Thanks Amy!<br /><br />To your best, Eldon<br /><br />__________________________________________<br /><br />Choices and Illusions: Or How Did I Get Here and How Do I Get Where I Want to Be? By Eldon Taylor is a book everyone will want to read, read again and share with others. This new book shows clearly how a person loses themselves and provides a clear path for how one can regain their true self and maximize their potential thereby realizing success, health and harmony in all things.<br /><br />Eldon Taylor’s new book, Choices and Illusions is coming from Hay House in June of 2007 and it already has a lot of people talking. Here is some of what they’re saying.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34767581.post-1158795543450378522006-09-20T16:31:00.000-07:002006-09-22T11:01:22.043-07:00Choices and Illusions continuedThis blog is primarily about the new book to be released in early 2007 titled, Choices and Illusions: or How Did I Get Here and How Do I Get Where I Want to Be? By Eldon Taylor<br /><br />We have received many early reviews from readers of Choices and Illusions and decided to post them as they came in with other comments and announcements since there is so much interest and pre-ordering of the book already. We hope you have enjoyed the early reviews appearing above. Thank you.Eldon Taylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10461229235931477957noreply@blogger.com0